Just for the sake of this story....my father in-law passed away last night at 7 pm CST.
Today while driving to the bank to get some cash to buy 2 burial plots,one for my father in-law and the other for my mother in-law....I was talking to a buddy on the radio.
I was telling him what was going and talking trash about people not being prepared when they go.
Well I looked down and I had a little pile of dirt on each leg.
I don't remember my jacket being muddy,but it could have been.It is the one I have on in the picture of me with Juan.
Anyway I stopped talking trash.....just in case I was getting a message from beyond the grave.
Jay
We, as in me and my husband had to buy the box thing they put the casket in. vault (?) (its the law here) and the headstone and pay for the opening and closing of the grave. We had to pay for his Dads whole thing. and part of his brothers! Funerals are so dang expensive its unreal! Sorry to moan and groan but his brother and sister AND my brother and sister, is in bad shape and I'm SO dreading it. cause no one has any kind of insurance AT ALL. the cheap @$$e$ don't care who pays as long as they don't have to do without while they are here! 
Steak - it's why aliens steal our cows.
And my priest is going to include a letter with my funeral plan requesting that whoever is priest when I die to let Henry's ashes be buried with mine. So I think I'll be pretty comfy. Gotta pre-pay the cremation, though.
I'd like to know who I'd be neighbor's with, too - and that was very sweet that Henry will be laid to rest with his beloved mommy.
Cheap burials ftw! 
