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Hi, I have been experiencing some very strange things in the last few weeks. First of all i have an Aunt that passed away on September 9th almost 2 years ago, she wanted no funeral, no flowers, she had one final request, was that her ashes be taken to Phoenix, Az and they be placed on top of her mothers grave, her husband never did this, saying he did not have the money to travel there. He moved a few months after her death to another state. Ive always had an ability to just know things, like someone being pregnant before they told me, and sometimes i can view pictures of people and know certain things about them, this is not a highly developed thing yet, i dont try to do it at all, it just happens. I do believe in spirits and ghosts, although i have never come face to face with one, but a few weeks ago my sister came for a visit, she was the closest to my aunt since she basically raised her, at that time i began getting calls that said Phoenix, Az on my caller ID when i answered no one was there, the calls happend up to 4x a day, the last one i recieved was the day my sister left here, For about 6 months now i cannot take a shower without feeling im being watched and looking out the curtain lots of times. this last week, i was in the shower late at night when my family was asleep and i thought i heard a woman or a child call out, i turned the water off and got out thinking my son had woken up, but he hadn't and all was quiet, that was about a week ago, while my sister was here, we heard heavy breathing on the baby monitor , I have not heard that again until today i was alone and watching t.v and heard heavy breathing directly behind me.. it scared me to death, then a few hours later while in the shower I heard a voice again, but no one was here, and no t.v or radio was on, i feel so eerie in the bathroom, I also had a experience with a shadow.. one appeared on my closet door one night, i woke up my husband, who just kept saying their couldnt be a shadow there was no light source, he just evenutually turned on the bathroom light and left it on and went back to sleep, i know i wasn't crazy something was there. Then today my sister called me and told me that in one of the pictures she took while here, shows a dark image of something standing next to me in my bedroom, so then that fits in with my shadow experience. I live in an Apartment that is fairly new, there are only 3 others here, and when the stuff happend today i was the only one home in the entire building, and to add to things, my mom last week started getting calls from Az, and shes answered and theres no one there. Im starting to get really freaked out here, I dont really feel threatend by anything, but it is scary to me mainly because i dont know exactly whats going on and why did it start now. The family is speculating that my Aunt is trying to communicate with us, cause her only wish after death was not carried out, and that maybe she wants us to do that, and it is coming up on the anniversary of her death. But there is not a way to know this is her, im not sure where to go from here, the breathing thing is eerie because she always breathed heavy that way, she had sleep apnea and was overweight and so her breathing was always very heavy like what i hear. And its not just me, its others in my family experiencing very similar events. We've thought of getting together and attempting to locate my uncle to see where her ashes are..to see if we can carry out her final wish. What should i do to make this stuff stop? any suggestions? thank you!!~!